What I Do When No One’s Watching (That Guests Secretly Love)
The little rituals I’m savoring this season—and how they quietly make me a better host
Who says you need to go out to find indulgence? This season, I’m savoring little rituals at home—flowers, coffee, books—that make life feel luxurious. Subscribers get an exclusive shopping list to bring it all to life.
We’re often chasing the best new coffee shops, restaurants, or bars—looking for a taste of atmosphere somewhere else. But this season is teaching me that I can experience those same small luxuries right here at home. The rituals I create for myself—simple, intentional, and indulgent—make my days sweeter. And when friends and family do come over, that sense of care naturally spills into how I host.
Fresh Florals, Even When No One’s Coming Over
I’ve started treating flowers as a weekly ritual instead of a splurge. Arranging seasonal stems just for me makes the house feel alive. Later, when a guest arrives, the flowers don’t feel staged—they’re simply part of how I already live.
A Coffee Station That Feels Like a Café
Instead of searching for the perfect latte in town, I’ve been curating syrups, spices, and mugs that make my kitchen feel like its own café. On slow mornings, it feels indulgent. When out-of-town guests wake up, they instantly feel cared for too.
A Garden That Feeds More Than Just My Body
This spring, I started my own little garden—leafy greens for salads, fragrant herbs for cooking, and a few seasonal vegetables just for fun. Tending it has become a quiet ritual, a way to slow down and feel grounded at home. Picking fresh ingredients for lunch or dinner feels luxurious in the simplest way.
It’s also changing the way I show up as a guest. I used to always bring wine when invited, but now I enjoy sharing something from my own table—a handful of fresh greens, a homemade salad, or herbs from the garden. It feels personal, thoughtful, and a little indulgent in the best way.
Reading for the Fun of It
A quiet afternoon with a book feels like pure luxury, but it also becomes a gift I carry into hosting: a story to share, a thoughtful line to bring up at the table, something new to spark conversation. Reading fills me up so I have more to give.
These little rituals are reminding me that luxury doesn’t have to live outside my front door. By savoring the simple pleasures of home, I’m romanticizing my own days—and becoming the kind of host who shares that feeling with others.
To bring these little rituals to life, I’ve curated a few of my favorite tools and treats that make it easy—and indulgent—to savor them at home. Subscribers get the full list, with links to everything I’m using this season.
